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Boyfriend Has Two Sides Recurring Dream
Two Sides to My Boyfriend
I'm having disturbing dreams about my boyfriend. In one dream it was night and he was holding a gun to my side while we sat in a car. I wasn't afraid; as I turned to the back seat I saw a bouquet of poinsettas. Recently I dreamed his grandmother told me he had been shot in his arm. In another dream, we were sitting at a table surrounded by guys. Two of them verbally attacked me while he watched and said nothing. I did stand up for myself but as I watched him across the table I felt like they were doing his bidding. I feel his resentment and anger in these dreams.
On the other hand, a while ago I dreamed of a little boy bathed in white like an angel; we talked, he was excited. My boyfriend walked up to the little boy and told him to watch it because I was "his soul mate".
Did not feel scared.
Stress. He resentments me working so much. I resent it too, we don't spend time together at all anymore. Also, he’s 21, I’m 27.
Someone is under attack and knows it, but does nothing about it.
Pointed Gun: Being threatened, at receiving end of potential violence
What it Means:
Most of the scenes describe scenes of anger, violence and resentment which you ascribe to your boyfriend’s actual feelings. Dreams can exaggerate, so the violence could be about verbal fights and abuse, or something more. The dreams tell you the relationship is not going anywhere and it’s a matter of time before it ends, for those reasons, and with the age difference, he may be young for you. I suspect you already sense it’s not a long term relationship.
The boy as angel in the dream hints like another man could enter your life if you move on, who would be a “good guy”. It also suggests that jealousy may be an issue with current boyfriend which can be a recipe for domestic violence. The dream brings up the question of whether you can see the big picture and have enough self esteem, to move along.
It sounds as if your career is important to you and that you’d be more comfortable with someone who supports that, and who also has a challenging and demanding career.
Bottom Line: These recurring dreams say these are important issues that you need to deal with.
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