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Cheating With Two Brothers
Cheating With My Partner’s Brother
I’m with my boyfriend, but end up in his brother’s bedroom with his brother. We kiss, which results in sex and feels so real. Afterward I feel so guilty because my boyfriend is suspicions. My boyfriend walks to his room; his brother opens the door and tells my boyfriend that he needs a word with him. His brother leads my boyfriend to the kitchen so that I can get out of the room without being seen.
The dream goes forwards in time. Now I am with my boyfriend and feel so guilty but when he asks me if anything happened with his brother, I lie. He then asks his brother if anything happened; his brother also says no, then walks past me and looks at me as if he’s done me a favor, and I say thank you.
Upset, guilty, angry with myself; age eighteen.
Main Life Issues:
I've been with my boyfriend for a year and am the happiest I've ever been! Before we got together we had trouble which involved his brother; his brother and I were friends first and had a bit of a past, but now I am so happy with my boyfriend. We see each other all the time. But his brother lives with my boyfriend, so it gets awkward.
I've had dreams about cheating on my boyfriend before, and dreams about him cheating on me, even though I'd never cheat on him.
It’s a story about a lot of intrigue, fear, guilt and confusion in relationships.
Cheating: A metaphor for what is underhanded and a hidden lie; cheating can also refer to “cheating on one’s standards” and not living up to one’s own morals.
Bedroom: Place of sexual interaction; a place that can be a haven.
Boyfriend’s brother: Actual person or a symbol for intrigue and lies.
Boyfriend is suspicious: Likely a heads up that your boyfriend is not as clueless as you think he is, about your past hook up with your brother.
Lying: Trying to escape reality and its consequences, by denying what is.
Brother walks by: A silent pact that appears to help, yet complicates matters.
What the dream Means:
The dream indicates you have a lot of guilt and anxiety about the affair with with your boyfriend’s brother. Although you say it is over and you would not cheat on your boyfriend, there may be undercurrents of an attraction on one or both of your parts, that continue to take an emotional toll.
The threesome and often seeing your ex (as your boyfriend's roommate) sounds very uncomfortable. Remaining silent about what is true while the brother is constantly in the picture is very stressful. It would take a lot of maturity for all of you to talk about the past and the present, and where each of you is at. However, doing so would clear the air.
Bottom Line: Keep in mind that at age eighteen, this may not be your final relationship with a man. How you handle this situation and the choices you make will shape your self confidence and self esteem, so it’s important to be real and honest.
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