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Dead Ex Hugs Me
Dead Ex Appears in Dream
In a dream last night I found myself sitting on the lap of someone I once loved and who loved me, even though we did not have a relationship. I was facing him as he held me in a soft, tender embrace with his long hair all around me as he nuzzled my ear. The passion and gentleness was beyond words and felt so real, there was a genuine soul connection. No words were spoken, only a transfer of emotions.
When I woke up I went to the computer to contact him on Facebook but when I typed his name into the search engine the first thing that appeared was his obituary. He had died six months ago, though it felt he was right with me and that feeling has not ended.
Safe, loved and completed.
Main Life Issues:
The ex suitor in my dream was once my coworker. We had a huge crush on each other years back, but nothing came of it because my boyfriend at the time was our boss. He frequently expressed his attraction. My boyfriend and I split up and I left that job but did not see that coworker for a few years. When our paths crossed again we were both committed to others so we parted ways again. We connected a few times on Facebook over the years. He was a tall, stout man and looked intimidating but was a quiet, sincere man, soft and gentle.
Someone reconnects with a special friend and feels very loved.
Sitting in someone’s lap: A little girl sits in the lap of a parent as a sign of being cherished and loved, which was how dreamer felt.
Loving someone at a distance: Unrequited love; in this case actual love that was not followed through, yet a real spiritual bond.
Nuzzling an ear: Getting someone’s attention in a loving way.
Passion and gentleness: Actual feelings they had for each other.
Soul connection: Acknowledgement of a bond that survives death.
No words were spoken: When there is a deep connection between people, words are often unnecessary.
What the dream Means:
Some dreams are not dreams, they are actual experiences remembered as a dream. This man did actually visit after he died to let you know two things. First, though he passed away, he is alive and well in the afterlife; and second, he still cares for you. This was his way of saying hello and keeping in touch.
Bottom Line: Love never dies, even unrequited love.
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