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I Phone My Ex Boyfriend and Get His Mother
Talking with Ex Boyfriend’s Mom
I dreamed about my ex-boyfriend and his mom. In the dream I dial my ex’s phone number but his mom answers and tells me the phone is hers and not to call again. She says she let him borrow her phone and people were playing on it. I apologize and say I was checking on him and his daughter. She tells me the daughter is well and will say hello from me. She also says her son is miserable in his current relationship and she doesn't approve of the girl he's with. I say “I don't know how to respond to that”.
I loved my ex.
Main Life Issues:
Being very independent
Someone desperate to make a connection gets an indirect one that does not get them closer to who they want.
Ex Boyfriend’s mother: Someone connected to who you loved.
Dial Ex boyfriend’s phone: Trying to reconnect with the past.
Not ex’s phone: Someone is on the wrong track.
Says not to call again: A message one’s behavior is inappropriate.
Only checking on him: Making an excuse for behavior.
Saying “I don’t know how to respond”: Groping for self-understanding; wanting to hold on; unwilling to let go.
What it Means:
The dream is about you, not your boyfriend, and the fact that you want him even though the relationship is over. It shows you’d like to think he’d be unhappy with anyone else. However, the mother’s words not to call again tells you the relationship is over. When a relationship is over, it’s over; the only way to respond is to let go.
Bottom Line: The dream invites you to look at how you hold on to the past instead of creating a future that could bring happiness. If it feels like he’s the only man in the world for you, you may need guidance from a counselor. Find help that empowers you to move on so you can get the love you deserve from someone who will be happy to have you.
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