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Showgirl Versus Girl Next Door
The Showgirl versus The Girl Next Door
The dream starts with me in a relationship with an unknown, long-haired girl who has blue hair, and we are very happy. We live in a city and she works in a nightclub as showgirl, but her only job is to serve drinks in a cocktail dress. Something happens and she and a few other girls are kidnapped. I join a search group. We find the man and chase him but are not fast enough to catch him. Just as the kidnapper is about to escape, the group leader sprints and catches him. As we confront him, the criminal returns all the girls except the blue-haired girl, but somehow I do not feel sad or angry that she is still gone. But I do feel sad because, for some reason, I think she is involved with another man.
Suddenly I am in a room with a short-haired girl with brown hair who talks to me as if we are friends. She is sad as she confesses a secret affection for me. I explain that the blue haired girl and I are together and apologize for making her feel sad. As I sit beside her, I reach out to give her a hug but end up just hugging her arm. She comments that the blue haired girl is a 'show girl' as if that explains why she has a 'cheating mentality'. I decide that if blue haired girl is cheating, I will choose this auburn haired girl instead, because she would be more faithful. Nevertheless, the thought of being betrayed and left by the blue haired girl breaks my heart. I wake up before I can confront the blue haired girl.
Main Life Issues:
Depression and trust issues.
Someone helps those who need help and faces a choice between what is unique and glamorous yet troublesome, versus what is more everyday yet steadfast.
Being in a relationship: A commitment, a partnership or deal.
Blue hair: Someone unique; a metaphor for creativity or originality.
A showgirl: A trophy; someone for whom appearances are very important.
Serving drinks: Work that appears exciting but is not important.
Cheating on someone, being unfaithful: Not delivering what was promised, no long-term benefits.
Brown hair, a brown-haired girl: What is normal and less exciting yet brings more benefits.
What the dream Means:
Whatever your issues, the dream asks you to examine what you value, what you want, and why you want it. Do you want life as a troublesome showpiece or a more normal version with long term dividends? The dream suggests that once your values are sound, you can create a successful and happy life.
Bottom Line: At age 23, feeling sad about losing what is glamorous hints at a need to let go of unrealistic or childish expectations. It is an invitation to create realistic goals. The path that appears hum-drum and less glamorous is the one that in the long run, brings satisfaction.
Thank you. The interpretation sheds light on issues that have been on my mind. You put my mind at ease and helped me realize that, deep down, I already knew what paths are right for me.
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