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Having an Affair
Having an Affair with Babysitter
I keep having this dream that I am having an affair with my babysitter’s son. I have had this dream twice already. I don't understand why this is happening.
I felt confused and it is driving me crazy trying to figure out why I'm having this dream.
Main Life Issues:
He is on my mind because he is having a hard time dealing with Post Traumatic Stress from fighting the war in Iraq.
Someone is comfortable and happy with another.
Sex: Often a symbol for getting close to another.
Having an Affair: A close interaction, possibly with some guilt.
What it Means:
Sex in a dream is often a metaphor for getting close. It sounds as though your heart may understand what he’s going through and wants to reach out to him to help him. Because you feel sympathy for him, you may be able to help him heal or take steps he needs toward healing. Sometimes all it takes is being around someone who understands.
It's not what you say, it can be just allowing him to feel safe and doing things together. For example, could he help with house repairs? Anything that gets him involved in doing things and being around people who care, can bring healing.
Bottom Line: The dream sounds like an invitation from your inner self to help this young man. Get him to do some activities or be around people in a way that feels safe for him.
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