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My Husband Is In Bed With Another Woman
I Dream That My Husband Is Cheating on Me
I had a dream I was laying in a bed with my husband. He was next to me having sex with a woman who in the dream was supposed to be his old friend. She was an actress from a TV show and in the dream, was his old friend. They kept laughing at me for being mad. They acted as if I was being ridiculous for getting upset, as if it was natural for everyone to have sex with an old friend while in the same bed with their wife!
Jealous, angry, hurt, sad.
Main Life Issues:
My husband puts his friends and hobbies before me and doesn’t see an issue with doing that.
Two people are on opposites sides of an issue and one feels cheated.
In bed with husband: Up close and personal; what is at stake.
Husband has sex with other woman in front of me: Not hiding one’s actions; flaunting one’s values; betrayal.
Actress from TV show: Someone important, famous, special; in this case, a metaphor for how the husband wants to feel.
Actress as husband’s old friend: How husband used to feel and wants to feel again, when with his wife.
Laughing at me for being mad: A message that it is not about betrayal, it is about your husband’s need for attention and affection.
Acting as if the movie star being there was natural: A message that it’s natural to want attention and be with a glamorous woman, which is what husband wants from his wife.
What the dream Means:
The story mimics the extremes in point of view between you and your husband. The image of another woman as a movie star tells you how to change the situation. A movie star is someone glamorous who has a good time and feels important. That is how your husband wants to feel – special and important, like he would feel if he were with a glamorous star. That is how he feels when he is with friends or when doing his hobbies.
Bottom Line: We can’t all be movie stars. However, if you want your husband to spend more time with you, make him feel like a star and take the time to have fun together.
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