This is a recurring dream, one of many. My ex-boyfriend is now married and so am I, but appears in my dreams. In one dream, he is driving me in his car along with my children and his wife. He puts me in the front seat with his wife, I sit closest to him and his wife sits by the window. He then tells me he wants to be with me and take my children, too.
Confused, wanted to do what is right.
Main Life Issues:
My boyfriend and I separated eleven years ago and are now both married to others.
Someone takes on extra responsibilities for others and their loved ones.
Recurring dreams: A dream generally recurs because the message is important. Or, a repeated message can act as a reassurance.
Ex boyfriend: Symbol of being loved; or, the person’s qualities represent traits you need to mobilize.
Ex is driving a car: The person who leads; someone who takes on main responsibilities.
I am in his car with his wife: Someone reconnects with something from their past.
His wife sits by the window: Someone gives something from their past priority; highlighting something special from one’s past.
Ex tells me he wants to be with me: A heads up to reconnect with something positive or helpful from ones’ past.
What the dream Means:
Even though your ex-boyfriend is the main character, the dream is not about him or about your relationship. Most dreams are about you, the dreamer. In this dream, your ex is a metaphor for traits, talents or strengths.
The dream shows someone taking on extra responsibilities and reconnecting with something from the past. It suggests you have unused talents, strength or traits you could dust off and use to put your life into a new direction. The traits may relate to career potentials or finding fresh strength in yourself.
Bottom Line: Your ex is a symbol of past strengths, talents or traits which you can mobilize to help yourself.
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