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Hurting My Partner's Mistress
I Keep Attacking My Husband's Mistress
I having recurring dreams about finding out that my man is cheating on me. Then I come into contact with these women (different women each time) and hurt each one physically. I feel really sick about it, even as I dream it, and feel awful all day. Last night I was dragging a girl by her hair and pouring vodka on her head until she admitted she was having an affair with him. In another dream, a lady was on my front porch with him; he had warned me she was coming over and I promised I wouldn't hurt her. However, I walk out the front door pretending to go to my car, then because she is tall, I climb up on her and keep punching her in the head. The dreams leave me terrified.
Angry, betrayed, hurt, sad, twisted up, depressed, lonely.
Main Life Issues:
Huge fears that my abusive, violent and emotionally cruel partner is cheating; he keeps breaking up. I am 28 and he is 52.
Someone has great anger and tries to destroy what gets in their way.
Violent Actions: Symbol of great anger, and implies danger.
Cheating: Not living up to one’s committments.
What it Means:
The dreams mirror your intense anger. Though the topic is about other women, the dreams sound like it could be a warning about how the relationship with this man is destroying you.
You say that in real life he keeps leaving you and yet, he is abusive and violent. My question is, why are you still in the relationship?
Bottom Line: You are your partner's mistress, too. It sounds as if you need to stop focusing on the other women (real or imagined) and help yourself by getting out of that relationship.
Note: Sometimes a dream puts you in touch with how the other person in the relationship is feeling. If your partner is extremely jealous, enough to make you feel afraid, make sure that you are not in danger.
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