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Back with Ex Boyfriend
Back with Ex Boyfriend Dreams
In the last three dreams I had, in each dream, my ex-boyfriend and I got back together and were all lovey dovey. Our love and feelings for each other seemed stronger than they actually were, which was odd.
I don't like having these dreams, they make me think of him and give me false hope. I'm trying to figure out why I have these dreams and why in the dream we get back together and love each other so much. I've been doing well without him and these dreams make me sad.
Happy but sad and confused.
Main Life Issues:
Feeling of loneliness at times. I broke up with my boyfriend four months ago, we were together for a year and five months. We were really close and loved each other very much, at least I thought so. It was hard for a while and took time for my heart to heal. The break up was very sudden and out of the blue. That's what really hurt.
Someone acts inappropriately, acknowledges it and prepares to accept the consequences.
Ex-boyfriend: May be actual ex, new man, or symbol of new strength.
What it Means:
The dreams are not about your ex boyfriend; they are about you and your own emotional development.
There can be several reasons why you keep having these dreams. One is that your dreams may be pointing to someone new who will enter your life who you will love more than the ex. Another possibility is that although you say you have moved on in your head, your feelings still hang on to him, so that you have not yet let go of him at an emotional level. If that is the case, you need to get honest with yourself and let the feelings go.
The dreams are trying to help you digest feelings about him and that experience, and remind you that although there was some love, it’s time to move on.
The ex may also be a symbol of your own strength, and getting together with him tells you: “Look how strong I am, I love my myself and my new empowerment”. Loving yourself and having good self esteem and new sense of empowerment is a good thing, perhaps reflecting more confidence than you had before.
Bottom Line: Dreams are a process of growth, in this case, of digesting the past and learning from it so that you can do better in the future, as in, choosing more wisely. These dreams show your growth, and may also predict a new man coming your way, who loves you a lot more than the ex.
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