Dreams About Sex and Passion
Sometimes dreams about sex and passion are about sex; sometimes they are metaphors about closeness and getting close, or about attitudes that show passion and enthusiasm.
I HAD SEX WITH MY MOTHER—THE DREAM: In the dream, mom and I were talking by the pool. Suddenly she was naked and laying back, looking up at me! I got on top of her and began having sex as she cried out my name! I woke up having an orgasm!
FELT HOW: Really bad.
MAIN LIFE ISSUES: Married, age 34. Not enough sex.
STORY LINE: Someone gets what they want but in an inappropriate way.
Mom, mother: Caregiver, person who looks after loved ones; symbol of support and nurturing.
Talking: Interacting, communicating.
Lounging by a swimming pool: A casual environment, playtime.
Naked: No of inhibitions, displaying all of you.
Laying back in one’s back: An invitation, a display of readiness.
Cried out my name: Being acknowledged by another.
Having sex: Can be the actual act or what is on your mind; metaphor of being up close and personal.
WHAT IT MEANS:
Though the dream shows your mother, the message is not about your mom. She represents qualities you may need show to get more of to get what you want in life such as sex with your partner. The scene hints that if you want more sex, take time to play and relax together; the nakedness suggests that you accept your wife as she is. Indirectly, the dream may also point to a tendency to relate to your wife as if she is your mother instead of a lover, which can block out passionate vibes.
BOTTOM LINE: Examine the dynamics between you and your wife. Lovers relax, interact, flirt and have fun. Sons sit back and let mom spoil them. Brothers and sisters share but do not generate sparks. Take a look at your unspoken expectations of your wife and your attitude toward her. Then act in the way a husband and a lover should behave. Actions come first, the dynamics follow.
SEX WITH MY BOSS—THE DREAM:
Me, my boss, a colleague were at a conference. My boss and I were in a discussion when the colleague interrupts, so my boss sends them to do some work while we continue. The discussion ends with him giving me a hug, which leads to a passionate kiss and sleeping in each others’ arms. He would have gone to full sex but we decided that since we had no protection, it was sensible not to on this occasion. We awaken in each others’ arms as the colleague reenters the room, which woke me from my sleep and dream.
FELT HOW: Perplexed.
MAIN LIFE ISSUES: Money; never seem to have enough for extras and treats.
STORY LINE: Someone collaborates with another who is important to them financially, which results in closeness, though interrupted.
Sex: Sex in a dream is not always about sex; it is often a metaphor for getting close, and close interactions.
No Protection: Suggests that circumstances for financial progress may take time to set up.
Interrupted: Suggests that several steps may be involved to get ahead at work, but that you can make it happen.
WHAT IT MEANS:
Sex in a dream is often a metaphor for “getting close.” This dream tells you that if you want to get ahead and perhaps be assigned a better project or new position at work that gets you more money, it is a good idea to have discussions with your boss. By doing so, he gets to know your abilities and ideas, which can score more responsibilities or a project that helps you advance and helps financially.
BOTTOM LINE: The dream suggests that the path to advancement is discussions and getting closer with higher ups. They need to be aware of your skills and ideas, so you can advance. It also tells you it won’t happen overnight and that others may try to “interrupt” or stop you, but it can be achieved.
FIREWORKS DURING A PASSIONATE KISS—THE DREAM:
I recently had a dream in which my ex-boyfriend came to visit at my mother’s house during a family gathering; my ex seemed excited to be there. We later shared a very passionate kiss and as soon as we leaned in, loud fireworks went off in the night sky.
FELT HOW: I felt turned on and a little overwhelmed.
MAIN LIFE ISSUES: Ex still tries to contact me though I am now in a committed relationship.
STORY LINE: Someone in a safe environment reconnects with another from their past in a way that creates an intense effect that many can see.
A kiss: SYMBOLS for a close connection or interaction; “sealed with a kiss” can be a metaphor for reaching an agreement that makes both parties happy.
Fireworks: Metaphor of something wonderful, fun and important.
Mother’s house: A safe space; a place where one is supported.
Family gathering: A happy meeting; a gathering of people of like mind or who have something in common (e.g. work associates).
Passionate kiss: An enthusiastic, meaningful exchange.
Loud fireworks, reaction: An intense result; a result that brings a lot of fun, joy and social recognition.
WHAT IT MEANS:
The dream is not likely about your relationship with your ex. Wherever you feel most at home, as if at your mother’s house, such as work or a special group, is where something new will happen. The dream hints at a new beginning or track such as a promotion or a project that will be significant, fun, and make a splash others will appreciate, just like fireworks.
BOTTOM LINE: Look for a great new idea, project or opportunity to cross your path. The dream hints it will be an exciting new commitment or responsibility, possibly at work or in a special group. HOLDING A PENIS—THE DREAM:
I’ve had this dream a couple times. In the dream, I’m talking like a child and saying, “No, don’t, please,” and holding my penis. I have never been molested that I remember, could this be anything else?
FELT HOW: Confused.
MAIN LIFE ISSUES: Sexual matters.
STORY LINE: Someone vulnerable tries to protect something very precious.
Child voice: Feeling powerless, vulnerable; becoming child-like.
Words “No, please don’t”: Attempt to protect self against something painful or threatening.
Holding penis: Protecting what is most vulnerable. Holding on to one’s manhood, feelings of strength.
Penis in dream: Sex symbols are not always about sex; they can be metaphors for closeness and passion or enthusiasm in other ways, or a symbol of what makes one feel vulnerable or sensitive.
WHAT IT MEANS:
You mention a sexual matter as a life issue. If something in that area makes you feel vulnerable, the dream may be mirroring those feelings so that you can name them, own it, and see what can be done to resolve the issue.
However, not all dreams with sexual symbols are about sex. Sexual images can be metaphors for other areas of life where you may feel vulnerable or threatened, for example, by a boss or family member who feels overbearing and threatening.
BOTTOM LINE: The dream is about an issue that makes you feel vulnerable and invites you to take steps to deal with it.