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I Lie About Getting Married
I dreamed I was Lying To My Family That I Was Getting Married
Seven years ago when I was turning 30, I dreamed I lied to my family that there was a man who was going to marry me. So on that day I put my wedding dress on and was sitting in my room as if I'm waiting for the groom to arrive. At one point I pretend I’m speaking with him on the phone, asking where he was. My mother was cooking the wedding feast, my sisters were aloof and my father was busy with preparations.
There was a tent in our yard for the guests, and I spot two familiar faces as I peep through the window. One was a guy I dated two years before and the other was a guy who was my friend who I happened to date toward the end of that same year.
Now I am 37, unmarried, not in a relationship, with no hope of a relationship. The dream is coming back with intensity.
Scared and nervous.
Main Life Issues:
Unlucky in life and in love.
Someone who wants something goes to great lengths to pretend it is happening.
Lying to others: Passing off something unreal as real; desperate for something to be true; avoiding the shame of something true.
Man who will marry me: What one wants; a pretend love.
Put on wedding dress: Acting like something is true, hoping that will make it true.
Tent in back yard: Place where guests, loved ones gather for event.
Peep through window: Looking at what is; seeing what one can.
Guys I dated: Potential suitors who did not turn out to be marriage partners.
What it Means:
The dream is returning for two reasons. One is to remind you that you do actually want to get married, so the dream is urging you not to give up. These days you can meet someone at any age, so why are you telling yourself there is no hope?
The second reason is that the dream is suggesting that, if you don’t give up, you will meet someone and marry. The dream comes to prepare you and give you a heads up so that you can be ready for a change in life.
Bottom Line: Dust off negative attitudes and look around. Take steps to get out and meet a nice man, for a wedding is possible.
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